Sway With Lois: February 2008

Monday, February 25, 2008

No forever "Manager" in the world !

We might not a business student , but we must have trained up how to "manage" things since we were young .

I never think that management play important role in my life until I had studied it for 2 semesters .
Management isn't only play the role in companies .

The basic theory in any management book are all similar , the theory could be good use in any fields of industry or company , even family or our daily live .
However , theory is still a theory if we didn't apply it . I do noticed that some of my friends who had studied management didn't able to friendly used what they had learned .

In addition , theory is just only the very basic foundation , to applied it would be another story .
I never try to mean that I am good in it , long life learning is necessary for everyone , I would just like to share that I found the convenient !

Knowledge is a bonus to make things doing better !
I never deny the elder people who has rich experiences , this is a good blessings !

I found a attractive topic in today newspaper .
" Manager has to be good at authorization "

It might sound bored to you , but it is interesting for me !
I discover that this problem happened on lots of young people . As an officer in Boys' Brigade , to trained them up to become a leader is pretty hard work .
Talent is just the minimal factor to accomplish as a leader , It is a long journey to train up a leader .As an officer , We never let our members to work alone , we are side by side with them , leading them toward the goal .

The newspaper lists down 5 main reasons why the manager don't want to hand out the authority to the workers.

1) Would the workers able to hit my target if I handed out the authority ?
2)Will I being eliminated If I were fully handed out the authority and others doing better than
me ?
3) If I give up my responsibility , what would I doing ?
4) I have no time to teach other !
5) There are no suitable candidate !

I pretty understand why these become the main reasons , since these is also the "best" excuses .
NO one would gave up their “Throne" , especially when you are in the high position .
Nature characteristic of Human being is clings to power , status ,reputation and wealth.

We also damn fancy of Flattery !

And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.
Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?
Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
(For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. ”

Matthew 6 :29-33

As our father Lord say , nothing would stand forever , not power , not status , not wealth ! As all of us known , Soloman was praise with great wisdom and rich , but the biblical define that "all his glory was not arrayed like one of the lilies. "

ONLY God's word endures forever !

Saturday, February 23, 2008

In the moment ...............

In this moment , I miss you so much .
I wish to know about you more
I know I don't need to hide my feeling .

When the day I made the decision to forget about you
it seems like every things going smoothly
I didn't lost my weight , I didn't suffer from insomnia
I just cried out my eyes for the day .....only the day
and carry a pair of panda eyes for the other day .

I just can believe I have such a speedy recovery
However , it is what I had prayed from God
Let HIM shown me the consequence .

A farewell for my friend tonight .
I could saw her face was obvious reluctance for leaving .
I would never get used for separation , hard to cope it although experience for so many times.

Treasure what every you have had , release those need to be released .

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Bonus !

Ang Pau is a bonus for CNY

But this kind of bonus would not stand for long , especially when you're getting older !
The first day of CNY , I went to my uncle 's house . One of the aunt who holding the angpau on her hand and walked around , I just sat in front of her ! She just treated me as transparent !

Ang Pau is a big bonus for me ! I am still a student :-P
Haiz......I have been using half of my ang pau money before the last day of the CNY .
Don't misunderstood oh.....I am not using it to buy something which is unnecessary oh~
I paid for my flute examination fees and buy a music sheet book ......costs me RM 300++ :-(

In fact , I had planned to save most of my Ang Pau money into my account ( which I have done for every year since I were child) , I already gave some amount to my dad and let him to help me to bank in it . Haiz .............still have to collect back half of it to paid the fees.

I also had planned to keep a little amount to spend ( hehehehehe....my own use) , I haven't been to cinema this year , I was waiting for the film "Jumper". I myself pretty don't like those CNY hottest Chinese comedy films. ( my own opinion only)......however , when I went back to my apartment few days agos , all the bills came ( elec , water , streamxy)......then my money again gone !

Slave of the mammon ! I have to save buck by buck !

In a Piano room practice flute

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

When a couple going to.........................

Marry or Break up

In this beginning of year 2008
A friend of mine just broke up and another is going to get marry .
And also lots of friends sharing about their love life to me .

Unfortunatuly mostly of those "stories" were bad new , I found out they just need a pair of ears to listen to them . All the advices that I had gave them were just rubbish . To solve all those problems will going back to themselves but no other.

People will worried when they didn't had partner . So did when they have one .
They complaint lots when they didn't had meet the one . More complaint when they have the one .

Thanks God for persist me in front of HIM , Thanks God for comfort me when I was in a deep valley . And Thanks God making me strong .

To have a long run in love isn't that easy .
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

1 Corinthians chapter 13 :4-6

Last week , I attended the
wedding plaining meeting for my captain , lots of matters has to be plan in advance , budget for the wedding . In fact , there are much more to prepare before the wedding . This is the second time for me to take part in helping the wedding planning . Which I were and am doing the decoration , it was a great experience for me around 2 years agos that I did for the first wedding decor . The satisfaction of finished a project and able to pleased the couple were awesome .

In my opinion , although Wedding party may just a ceremony ( Damn tired ...hehehe) , for a Christian couple , it is the best time to show the testimony and the love of God to friends and families , which would not done by non Christian .

Saturday, February 16, 2008

fellows......who are sitting in the same ship .....=felloship

I didn't enjoy fellowship for long .
I mean the fellowship in church .

so do the gathering with some of my best friends

Nowadays it is pretty hard to met up some of them since mostly are left for study , working aboard and busy with works . ( it seems like just remain the CNY period :-P )

Why we having some many different fellowship in church such as youth fellowship, young adult fellowship , Women fellowship or men fellowship , families fellowship ............?

The vital point of fellowship is ........" sharing".
When a group of people in the fellowship lost their trust between each and others .It would not consider as a healthy fellowship life .
I am not mean to complaint on anything , I knew that trust would not build at one side.

Monday, February 11, 2008

Friend gathering 2008

We have became good friend since primary school.
As yet , we live so near to each anothers , we just meet for once per year ( mostly is on CNY)
We have a year time stories to chit chatting about on the lunch time . Again every year we both recall back some of our old friends , willing to know how are they doing .
However ,We didn't even know where are some of our best friends now.

Tolerance , patient and acceptance are needed in every friendship . Everybody is chasing different dreams ahead us . For those friends who had got married , hope to send my great blessing to them .

It was the second time she visited my house , actually not many of my friends been to my house since I had moved to Semenyih. Just for few hours to spent together in deeper chatting , it was the most satisfaction for me .

Flower tea

With a cup of flower tea can went through longer , the nice armor surrounding us .

Friendship forever

Friday, February 08, 2008

Recall back ..............the day

Again I found some interesting videos
Enjoy it ~

Monday, February 04, 2008

I don't want to play Game with time

In that moment

I realized nothing important for me anymore
NOT Money
NOT My studied
NoT My dream
NOT Appearance
NOT People judgement
NOT Self -discipline
NOT Restraint
NOT everythings

Only that moment

I understand Why people wanna get drunk .
Why people wanna shout out loudly.

Just that moment

I realized that I am getting older .
I realized that I am not young anymore.
I realized that I can't play with time , it is no longer accompanies me ......it runs ahead me .
I regretted my life.

Just this period

I hope to be silent and alone .

Sunday, February 03, 2008

El Tango de Roxanne

2 of my most Fancy films

Moulin Rouge

hehehe.....I just notice and knew Ewan McGregor through this film
He is so smart and gorgeous .

Phantom of the opera

And I found this song "El Tango de Roxanne"
I think the reason why I would fancy on this kind of films is because of the OST and dancing .

I really hope to review again some of the films . I still remember I watched a film called "Arabian Nights" and it means "The Flower One Thousand and One Nights". ( it isn't a cartoon version )
I found the film accidentally in an insomnia night in TV , it took me 3~ 4 hours to finished the film , if I'm not remember wrongly , it was finished at the midnight.

I believe most of the people has heard about this story " One thousand and one nights". When I was a child , I damn like the stories of Aladdin's Wonderful Lamp , and also the famous story " Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves".


"One Thousand and One Nights " is a collection of stories collected over thousands of years by various authors, translators and scholars in various countries. These collections of tales trace their roots back to ancient Arabia and Yemen, ancient India, ancient Persia , ancient Egypt, ancient Mesopotamian Mythology, ancient Syria, and medieval Arabic folk stories from the Caliphate era. Though an original manuscript has never been found several versions date the collection's genesis to somewhere between AD 800-900.

What is common throughout all the editions of The Nights is the initial frame story of the ruler Shahryar and his wife Scheherazade and the framing device incorporated throughout the tales themselves. The stories proceed from this original tale; some are framed within other tales, while others begin and end of their own accord. Some editions contain only a few hundred nights, while others include 1001 or more "nights."

The collection, or at least certain stories drawn from it (or purporting to be drawn from it) became widely known in the West during the nineteenth century, after it was translated - first into French and then English and other European languages. At this time it acquired the English name The Arabian Nights Entertainment or simply Arabian Nights. The best known stories from The Nights include "Aladdin's Wonderful Lamp," "Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves," and "The Seven Voyages of Sinbad the Sailor." Ironically these particular stories, while they are genuine Middle Eastern folk tales, were not part of the "Nights" in its Arabic versions, but were interpolated into the collection by its early European translators."

hehehehe.......if anybody who 's own this film , please ...................lend me !
I really hope to review again .
Yup , I know the film is a bit old . Anyway , I hope someone could do me a favour !