Sway With Lois: SeX EduCatIoN
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Saturday, April 08, 2006

SeX EduCatIoN



Could you chat condom with your parent or talk STIs with teacher ?
It's can be pretty cringey asking for sex advice especially face -to-face.


Few days ago, Dr Wong yian yian , one of the female politican and also sexologist been invited to FM 98.8 to have a talk and discuss about the sex education . She throwed some questions to the public , when should we start teaching our children about sex? Her answer was since 2-3 years old , surprise ! Sex education is lifelong learning , since we were kid until we have became senior citizens /menopause . Normally what we had thought about "sex" is just "sex" ,hahahahahaha!

I strongly agree with Dr . Wong yian yian , Asian really feel shy and traditionalism , we are lack of knowledge about sex education . Sex education is not only "sex act", "sexual intercourse". It is also about love , body , health , family , social , culture, moral and .....................
In the same day , my housemate and i went for dinner and i brought outthe topic what i had heard in the morning , i got a surprise answer after our chat. They are not going to teach their children about sex education in the future , they think that the children could able to know about it by theirselves and also from " BOOKS" !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why they have this mind? WHY ? Yes ! All of us know , because our parent didn't do it for us so!

Nowadays , More and more sex harassment occured around , the victim might be your friends ,relatives and classmate. In the same way , the violator might also those group of people . How Awful !!!!!!!!!!! Pornography is easier to gain by youth compare to before , I believe although Asian , I also believe more than 80 % of youth have ever touch about this porny , this is undoubtedly , comic books , novals or magazines can be obtain anywhere . So what should we do in the future if we discover that our children reading or watching it ? Scold him or her directly ? punish him or her? The answer is multiple-choice ! The important point is to help your kids to have a right thought and mind in sex , not to forbidden or avoid in talking about sex .
That is why you have to start teaching them since they were kid . If you not agree with me , do you think you are going / are able /are brave to discuss about sex when they are in the youth? probably not ! One more important information to announce or warn is who ever having sex with girl under 16 is going to be charge and jail for 5 years.







Apologize that i couldn't able to tell you how to teach your kids, because i got no experience ,hahahahah! the useful way is reading some books and information , it would be very helpful. ( i am going to read it too , to plan myself as a teacher or a mom )




For youth , it will be great and brilliant if the school or some associations could give them some speak . For Example , one of the association is " Focus on the family".

There is a package of talk call "No Apologies" ,There are 7 chapters ,

1 ) Video and testify 2) Heath and Relaionship 3) medium effect 4) Effect og having sex before Marriage5)AIDS 6) Advantages and freedom of defend our chastly 7 ) Meaning /define of marriage .

Children are always the good learner , however they dislike reprimand and admonish . Daily learning is important , so what i mean daily learning? News in the newspaper , television , expriences , things have happend around them , their friends , books . All of them are marvelous teaching materials . So as a parent , use you brain and think , get the ideas from those helpful materials . Pls don't only sitting down and start talking like a serious lecturer.



What Is CONDOM?
A condom is a device, usually made of latex or more recently polyurethane, that is used during sexual intercourse to reduce the risk of pregnancy and/or some sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) such as gonorrhea, syphilis and HIV. Condoms are also often used to cover medical ultrasound imaging transducers, keep a sex toy clean, and in cases of toys shared between partners, helping provide STD protection. Condoms do not protect against all forms of STDs. Other uses include holding water, keeping gun muzzles dry, and being a membrane to keep drugs intact whilst being trafficked. They are also known as prophylactics, as well as a number of colloquial or slang terms, such as rubbers.

What Is STIs?

A sexually transmitted infection (STI) is an infectious disease which is passed from one person to another through intimate sexual contact. There are at least 25 different sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including chlamydia, gonorrhoea and genital herpes. STIs are some of the commonest infections around the world and affect people of all ages, races and sexuality. As well as being easy to catch we also know that you're more at risk from HIV if you sleep with someone who's already carrying an STI.
Whether you are straight, gay, bi or transsexual, you need to protect yourself against these infections by using the right type of contraception. And you need to do this until both you and your partner are sure there's no chance of either of you catching or passing on an STI.
Here's a list of some of the more well known STIs:
ChlamydiaSymptoms: In women, this infection often produces no symptoms, but can block the fallopian tubes, causing fertility problems later. You may notice slight discharge or pain on peeing. In men, it often affects the urethra and causes marked symptoms such as discharge or pain on peeing, described as 'non-specific-urethritis' ('NSU').Treatment: Testing involves a special swab, or urine or blood tests. Treatment is with a specific type of antibiotics, but it can require several courses of tablets. Your sexual partners should be contacted and checked as well.

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